Renovating a home is often idealised as a rewarding experience for couples, but a new study reveals a starkly different reality altogether, ruining relationships.
Novuna Personal Finance pinpointed the biggest bugbears within the home as a lack of storage space (32%), outdated kitchens (27%), and cramped bedrooms (19%). As a result, only 39% of UK homeowners feel their home is relaxing.
19% of homeowners admit that home improvement projects have pushed their relationships to the brink, leading to serious consideration of separation or even resulting in an actual breakup. In fact, 1 in 15 (7%) homeowners admitted that renovation disagreements were the final straw that ended the relationship.
This is especially true for younger homeowners, with many biting off more than they can chew when it comes to renovating. A significant, 38% of 25-35 year olds, almost spilt up during their home makeover, with 18% admitting they were unable to reconcile their renovation rows.
Renovations are big undertakings, nevertheless, the research revealed that 57% of homeowners would take on renovation projects themselves rather than hire a professional, and the added stress of DIYing could put extra strain on a relationship.
Finances fuel renovation-related rows
Money emerged as the primary fuel for renovation-related arguments (28%), followed closely by clashing priorities (19%) and underestimating the time it takes to complete the work needed (16%).
However, whilst budget is often the main source of tension and compromise, 81% of homeowners agree that the renovation was worth the cost. 14% of homeowners reported fewer arguments after completing a renovation, suggesting that the shared accomplishment can ultimately bring couples closer.
With 57% reporting domestic arguments stemming from renovation decisions, it's no wonder that 61% of home improvement projects in the UK are put on hold as a result.
Compromise is key to keeping the peace
26% of respondents found resolution by meeting in the middle on design elements, with women being slightly more likely to compromise (27% vs. 24% of men). Another 23% compromised on budget. However, a concerning 23% admitted to sweeping the issue under the rug, leaving the work undone and tensions simmering.
Theresa Lindsay, Marketing Director, Novuna Personal Finance said: “As house prices continue to rise, taking on a renovation project can be a great way to get on the housing ladder, and can really transform the way you feel about your home. As our research shows, having realistic goals and a clear budget at the outset is key to reducing tension and maintaining harmony in the home.”
